My last full chemo treatment was June 3rd. I still get Herceptin every three weeks to target the HER2 protein, but it doesn’t carry the same dire warnings of potential side effects. I have hair now and my fatigue is nearly gone. However, some effects are still making themselves known. I have begun to notice how easily my fingernails are chipping and breaking. If I pick the remote up off the table, one breaks. If I get a glass from the cabinet, another nail breaks. They began breaking into the nail bed and bleeding. Here is my chipped fingernail after opening the mail:
I spoke with a nurse and the first thing she asked me was if I had been on Taxotere. When I said yes, she gave me a sad look and said that was why my nails were breaking. One of Taxotere’s known side effects is fingernail changes. These changes range from discoloration of the nails to the nails actually falling off. While I am very thankful that I still have my nice pink nails, I am very tired of them breaking constantly. I have to wait for the Taxotere affected nails to grow out. That can take three to six months. *sigh*
Speaking of ordeals, my husband has taken on all of the bills related to my cancer treatments. Wait, before I get to that, I have to talk about how awesome my husband has been. He didn’t want me to stress out about the bills. He told me, “Your only job is to get better.” God, I love that man. I have had cancer twice in 15 years and he has stepped right in to take care of me. He has never hesitated. I am beyond grateful that he is my husband. And he’s hot too!
Back to the money. My husband had gone to our insurance’s website to gather some documents. He decided to tally how much we have been billed, just for my cancer stuff, so far this year. He called me up and told me to guess.
That’s right. My first appointment with the doctor to check the lump was January 13. So in ten months, I have racked up nearly half a million dollars worth of medical bills. No one can tell me that financial distress is not a side effect of cancer treatments. My husband and I are extremely lucky that we have decent insurance through his employer. As a result, we have a $4,000.00 deductible and $4,000.00 out of pocket cap. So out of the total, we only have to pay $8,000.00. Unfortunately, we don’t have that money just sitting around. However, it is a ton better than half a million.
My point is that not all side effects are physical. And some of these effects will last much longer than the treatment itself. No one should ever have to worry that they’ll save their life, but lose all financial ability or comfort.
6 thoughts on “The Effects Keep Coming”
It’s ridiculous for health care to cost so much, but your husband’s great insurance is a blessing and takes some of the burden off your mind. Stress is stress…doesn’t matter which avenue it takes.
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Agreed! I feel awful for people that have bad or no insurance. I can’t imagine how it is for them.
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That’s a real eye opener, I lot of money to find for least than a year.
You are lucky you have a husband as you have explained, it would have been a lot harder if you didn’t.
I have ACC cancer, just had an MRI today, have been under health care in NZ, it hasn’t cost me anything.
Here’s the link if you care to read about ACC cancer.https://ramblingsofawriter2016.com/2016/01/07/adenoid-cystic-carinoma-a-cancer/
I couldn’t imagine having to do this alone.
I am very sorry that you have your own struggles. I hope that the MRI gives you positive news.
I agree the financial side of cancer is definitely a side effect. It is unbelievable how much cancer treatment costs! Money and bills is not something we should have to worry about while going through treatment and beyond. About the nails- did they recommend taking a pre-natal vitamin? I get the whole having to wait until your nails grow out but maybe the vitamin will help with making your nails stronger while they grow out and help with less breakage?
Good grief! I can imagine that the financial burden must take a huge emotional toll on many. Glad you at least don’t have to pay half a million dollars